MissHersheys' REAL TALK RANDOMZ: Why you mad at her?

 Going through your man's cell phone...huh? Found a couple of numbers...huh? Maybe a couple of pics? First of all, why are you in his phone? Secondly why do many women resort to calling the females whose numbers appear in the phone? But hold up, an even larger problem is that when you call you have the nerve the be upset an have an attitude with her! First of all if you're so bold to call her instead of checking your man, have the decency to at least approach her like a woman. It's nothing wrong with being polite because 9x's out of 10 she has no idea who you are in the first place. When you go to her upset, yelling, cursing, and screaming...you have now lost a potential ally who could actually aid u in busting the true culprit (YOUR MAN) but now instead you have gone and pissed her off. Secondly, like I said you should actually be checking your man first, and if you're like, “Nah, I'm not asking him because he'll just lie about it,” then you should ask yourself, why are you with him in the first place. Trust is a key foundation to any relationship and if you can't trust the one you're with, either because of your own insecurities or something that they've done, then it is probably time to move on. Believe me, you'll save yourself a lot of headaches and STALKING in the long run. I know I just addressed women in this discussion but the same can be said of men...I know you're out there going through your girl's phone and FaceBook. All of you JUST STOP IT!

Move On! I have...

Ok, so we've all had a bad relationship a time or two...so what makes it so hard for some of us to move on? Why does it become so hard to realize that sometimes things work out and sometimes they JUST DON'T? Well I'm here to tell you to that though it may be hard to get it through your head that what you thought was forever is over and done, there is no need to cry about it. We, as people, tend to hold on to things (and people) because we tend to get comfortable with them. It is not necessarily that we can't live without these things (or people) but rather we are accustomed to living with them. You'll soon learn that getting up and getting over it is definitely better for you in the long run. No one should feel the need to hold on to something that is no good for them. No one should feel the need to remain with someone who is not capable of making them happy. No one should feel subjected to remain in a relationship with someone just to appease the masses (u know...family, friends, and society) just because it looks good and sounds right. No one has to live in that situation but YOU, so if it's not right, for whatever that reason may be please Move On and everyone will be a lot better for it in the long run. Don't get me wrong, and think that I don't know that it is possible for all relationships to have problems and that a lot of those problems can be fixed...but years of the same ol' issues should not be tolerated...life is short and who says it has to be lived miserably. The story of my life...I'M MOVING ON...so world, here I stand waiting and ready to embrace what's next.


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